Saturday, October 4, 2025

Unforseen Moments

 Life often unfolds in ways we never expect — sometimes with surprises that leave us smiling, sometimes with lessons we didn’t know we needed. Through it all, we’ve learned that what matters most is not perfection, but the memories we create along the way.

💍 2006 – A New Beginning

In 2006, soon after we got married, we were wrapped in the excitement of beginning our new life together. Like most newlyweds, we decided to mark the occasion with a movie date — our very first one after marriage.

With hearts full of anticipation, we booked tickets for Jillunu Oru Kaadhal at Udayam Theatre. A perfect romantic film to match our mood, or so we thought.

But as the lights dimmed and the screen lit up, we were in for a surprise — the movie wasn’t Jillunu Oru Kaadhal at all. It was Vettaiyaadu Vilaiyaadu, a gripping crime thriller, miles away from the tender romance we were expecting.

We were shocked, even a bit disappointed. But instead of letting it ruin our mood, we looked at each other, smiled, and decided to stay and watch. Maybe it wasn’t what we planned, but we were together — and that’s what mattered.

Later, we found out that only that particular afternoon show was Vettaiyaadu Vilaiyaadu, and the next one was indeed Jillunu Oru Kaadhal. It was just a scheduling mix-up. An unforeseen moment.

But looking back, it wasn’t a mistake — it became a memory. One of those small, unexpected turns that life takes, reminding us that not everything has to go as planned to be perfect.

And just like that, we began our journey — with a twist, a laugh, and a story we’d tell for years.

👶 2010 – Welcoming Our Second Son

In 2008, we welcomed our first baby boy while living in Singapore. Knowing his gender ahead of time helped us prepare, and everything felt wonderfully predictable.

But when we were expecting our second child in India, things took a delightful twist. This time, we believed it was going to be a girl — we had the name ready, and our hearts were set. But to our surprise, we were blessed with another chubby, adorable baby boy. And once again, life showed us how love expands in unexpected ways.

🚆 2013 – A Ticket to Remember

That year, we booked a train from Nagai to Chennai. My husband, though unwell, handled the booking, and with two small children to manage, we didn’t double-check the travel date. We boarded the train as planned — only to find another family sitting in our reserved seats.

Confused, we looked at our tickets and realized with a jolt — our journey was actually scheduled for the previous day.

Thankfully, a kind TTR stepped in. He asked my husband to get down at the next stop, buy fresh tickets, and helped us with two berths for the journey. It was an embarrassing moment, but one that reminded us to always, always check the details — and that there’s kindness in the world when you need it most.

✈️ A Near Miss

Another close call came during a solo trip I took with the kids from Abu Dhabi to Chennai. Thinking our flight was the next day, we almost missed it — only catching the error during a last-minute double check. We scrambled, packed, and rushed to the airport. We made it — just in time. That day, I truly understood how easily travel times can confuse, and how crucial it is to always verify.

After that, we made a quiet promise: no more AM/PM confusion, and no more travel plans that leave room for doubt.


🌟 A Journey Etched in Memory

Looking back, these weren’t just incidents — they were unforgettable unforeseen moments that shaped us. Each one taught us something. Each one became a story. And each one brought us closer, not just as a couple, but as a family.

We may not always have had the perfect plans, but we’ve always had each other — and that, more than anything else, has made the journey worth it.

Way to Go............😃 

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Unforseen Moments

 Life often unfolds in ways we never expect — sometimes with surprises that leave us smiling, sometimes with lessons we didn’t know we neede...